Starting a conversation on a dating app doesn’t have to feel like rocket science. The key is finding the right opening line to spark a fun and engaging chat. Danielle Bezalel, Sex Educator, shares the 3 best messages you can send on a dating app.
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So here’s 4 ways to nail your first message:
Share Something About Yourself
One of the best ways to break the ice is by sharing a little about yourself. Why? It creates a sense of openness and encourages your match to do the same. Conversations are a two-way street, and when you share something personal, you make the interaction feel more genuine. You can share your hobbies, what you’re reading right now, and then you can ask the same of them!
Add a Touch of Humor
A playful approach can break the ice and keep things light. Try something like, “What’s the weirdest food combo you secretly love?” Funny dating app conversation starters make it easy to keep the energy positive, so it’s okay to be goofy from the start.
Highlight Something from Their Profile
If their profile mentions a hobby or interest, use it as a conversation starter. Try, “I saw you’re into hiking—what’s the best trail you’ve ever done? I’ve been meaning to get outdoors more!” Combining something personal with a question is a surefire way to create an engaging chat.
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Use Pickup Lines
Have you ever matched with a person you think could be the person of your dreams – or simply someone who can show you a real good time – and you start googling dating app conversation starters? We can help. Whether it’s starting a conversation on tinder, Hinge, DOWN, or any other dating app, everyone has to at some point start a conversation, right?
One easy way to do that is by sending smooth pickup lines. You don’t have to send really sexy pick up lines if you don’t feel like it, if you’re not careful, they could turn into the worst pickup lines you’ve ever sent!
So here’s a list of the pick up lines you can use when starting a conversation on Tinder:
Dating App Conversation Starters: Pickup Lines
- Did you just come out from the museum? Cause you’re a work of art.
- Give me your name so I know what to scream tonight.
- Is there an airport nearby, or was that just my heart taking off?
- If you were a chicken, you’d be impeccable.
- Is it hot in here, or is it just us?
- You don’t need keys to drive me crazy.
- I’m going to give you a kiss. If you don’t like it, just return it.
- Let’s save water by taking a shower together.
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- You can kiss me if I’m wrong. But the earth is flat, right?
- Aside from being sexy what do you do for a living?
- You look so familiar… didn’t we take a class together? I could’ve sworn we had chemistry.
- Have you been to the doctor’s lately? Cause I think you’re lacking some vitamin me.
- I don’t have a library card, but do you mind if I check you out?
- Do you like Star Wars? Because Yoda only one for me!
- So, tell me: how does it feel to look so great?
- I’m new in town. Could you give me directions to your apartment?
- I can’t find my phone number. Can I have yours?
On the contrary, here are some of the worst messages you can send on a dating app:
When you share something about yourself, it builds trust and creates a sense of connection. It’s not about oversharing but offering a glimpse into who you are to spark interest. The best conversations happen when both people feel comfortable and engaged!
Having trouble starting the conversation on your own? Use icebreaker games instead! DOWN provides games such as Would-You-Rather questions and Photo Challenge so you can easily start the conversation with your match 😉